Are you wanting to leave to be with someone? What will happen if you move and your life ends up being exactly the same as it is now and the only difference is your location?
all of the issues and problems I thought I was leaving behind jumped into my suitcase!
No. I am not wanting to leave for someone. Not sure where I am going, yet, actually. Atlanta Georgia, Salem Oregon, are two options, where I have friends.
I am not running from anything, Scott, so no problems will follow. Could be new ones though ~ like work, and I have two great jobs here.
I am just tired of
here. I am in a rut, and I seem to live for everyone else, be there for everyone else.
I have lived in six states and five countries. If you are trying to be someone else, you can be a better or a worse person where you wind up.. If you are looking for the pot of gold, so are a lot of others. If you are looking for adventure, romance, or a challenge, do a lot of soul searching. I would never tell anyone not to flex their wings, but always remember that it is harder to find work in a new community. Unless you have a good job offer, and good adaptation skills, it can be stressful. It also can be rewarding.
I must have read your post 5 times so far. Seriously. And I will probably read it 100 more.
Thank You.
But ~
I know who I am. And I like me and am good with that. So I know I can do this. Wanting to be someone else is not an option ~ but being me
somewhere else could be everything.
Not too hijack but I may as well toss in my reasoning for wanting this as well.
1.) My so called "friends" just piss me off whenever they get the chance.
2.) I am stuck at a dead end job in retail that is stressing me out more and more each day
3.) I have no companion......except my cat. I have no luck with the ladies it seems. LOL!!!
4.) there is nothing here for me anymore. None of my family lives here anymore.
Basically I am getting more and more miserable each and every day and with no means to do this is not helping me out any. Looking into other options.
Marie I am in my 30's.
Number 4 works for me. Except my daughter. She was the reason I didn't do this five years ago. I was actually going to move to Canada!
But she wouldn't go and I couldn't leave her. But now she is 23, almost of out college, kinda, and needs to be on her own.
I have decided if I do this, I can't leave with a minimum of 10K.
So ~
I need a plan.