TommyB
iPF Noob
Perhaps this topic should be via pm?
Sorry - not trying to hijack the thread. Gonna reply to Mr. Smurf, then let it be.
I don't mean to intrude on this, but did I read correctly that you adopted out a daughter that you had with your current wife when you were both in school? I think it's pretty awesome that you were together enough at the time to set things up as you have. I am intrigued that you both waited 18 years or so before having another.
Not that it's any of my business, of course, if you don't wish to talk about it.
It's not that we "had it together", it's that we both have pragmatic streaks running through us (her more than I), and we knew we were too young and selfish and poor to raise a child well. I no longer agree that money/opportunities are more important than being raised by your own parents, but it was the choice we made and we've all lived with it. So grateful for her health and education and so forth. Really really hoping and praying to meet her some day soonish.
And, yes, it's rare for my wife and I to still be together. We didn't get married until almost ten years later, though we stayed together the whole time. Normally these things tear people apart, but our marriage today is lightyears better than our relationship has ever been, and it's only getting better, a miracle I attribute wholesale to God. We're nervous about being parents, especially in this economy, but we know it's the right time this time.
Lots more to the story, of course, but I'll let it alone there, this being a Dragonvale Tips & Tricks thread! Sorry, everyone! Thanks for all the congrats.
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