Hi, ejbetz, and welcome to the forum. Good to "see" you and I hope you enjoy your visits.
I moved this question of your to it's own thread under the Help section. You had posted in someone else's introduction thread, which interrupted THAT conversation and is against the rules (it's called thread hijacking or being off-topic). For the future, if you have a question, please start one of your own (after a good search to see if it's already been asked before). This will help others to help you.
Now, for your question. Can you please tell us what type of e-mail account(s) you are using, IMAP or POP. Because they act differently on the iPad and we don't want to tell you something incorrect. Thanks.
Marilyn