Hi Perry,
welcome to the forum.
Two ways you can do this:
1.) You can either go back to the song that is playing and press the pause/stop button.
2.) Or double hit the home button until you get the multi-task bar. Slide the apps to the right, until you get the volume control panel. From there you can stop your music as well.

You need to do either, prior to putting your pad to sleep. Otherwise it will still play when switched to sleep mode. Hope that helps!

Hi Perry and welcome to the Forum!

The IPad Forum is a community of members from all walks of life and from all over the world coming together to share our experiences and to help each other learn about this wonderful piece of technology the Ipad. There is a wealth of information already here in the many threads we have so doing some searches will answer most of the questions you have. If then you cannot find the answer you are seeking then by all means post your question. There are many friendly and informed members here only too willing to help you.

We also have our own App - It is a very simple app to navigate.
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2 very informative threads from which you will learn many tips and shortcuts for the IPad.
http://www.ipadforums.net/ipad-general-discussions/21590-tips-tricks-those-us-who-dont-know.html
http://www.ipadforums.net/ipad-os/49581-ios5-tips-tricks.html
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