This has happened to me a few times- now if I trade I always ask if I can get my items first. I know how annoying it is.. But just take a deep breath. I actually had someone say they wanted to trade- then we figured out we weren't neighbors, then I was pm- ing the person saying " we aren't neighbors- add me" I was waiting for the request and it never came through, I kept saying "add me". Then I got a message from him/her saying the ten mallets were up in the stall and to quickly come and get them. I messaged back again saying add me please. Yet still no add. I got another message a few mins later- saying the mallets are still there and to hurry up and get them. By then I was just over it. These things happen for various reasons, maybe there's people out there that just like stirring trouble, or there may be a simpler explanation, like not seeing messages. Whatever the reason- it happens. This same person PM's me the other day about getting sum materials- and I said to them " oh I remember you!... " and then went on to jog their memory on what had happened. Anyway in the end we both had a laugh about it. But the truth of the matter is- that people on these online games ( well some people, not all people) think they're untouchable. And they basically are- sometimes its just a big misunderstanding, I always try and give people the benefit of the doubt, but I also don't worry too much about things like that. I can't ensure people to behave with common decency. But I can make sure I do. I think also that there's a lot of people on here where English isn't their first language, or even something they are good at. This can make things a little difficult. Just sayin. * ducks down to take cover from oncoming missiles*