iFixit won't break it down that far. Unless you have a good electronics repair station and some solid skills the chance of doing succesful board level repairs on modern electronics is pretty low. You'll most likely end up replacing the entire board.
Though, if you do try to replace the connector I'd like to hear how it goes.
To find the part you'll probably have to deep dive into an electronics supply catalog; unless someone has a more complete parts breakdown for the iPad than I've ever seen. Which is what you are asking for, of course.
Good luck.