I have an iCloud Apple ID as well. I set it up when it was @me.com. It's impossible to change this one, I don't even get the "Edit" option. But I assume that's not the same in your case.
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One last idea: Did you use your Gmail address as alternate address, or is that part without address, just like on my screenshot? View attachment 55178