M325i said:
I'm sorry tmno2 I didn't understand what you were trying to say with the remote control you stuff comment, would you care to elaborate?
I would reckon he has a laptop for his own use and education, and is using it to update his knowledge via "Google" and various forums. If so, he is probably a member of iPF also, if you have "folders" on your iPad, check for apps in the folders that look innocent from outside the folder, but hook up your iPad remotely to his computer.
It sounds like he is running a password decoder/breaker of some sort, to enable continuing access even after you have changed passwords.
Probably has access to your iTunes backup files, via shared home network access, from which your current coded password is accessible.
It may be your best option to hire him out to "Homeland Security, the CIA or the FBI"
But definitely do not murder him, it is against the "LAW"!
He is probably reading every word of this,
So best of luck, you may need it !!!