I do give iTunes credit tho. Problem sorted and I have had my money back already.
However l do still have a minor problem, which no doubt the forum will kno how to sort.
Please have a look at the pic. iTunes told me to go to that page and edit. I have been playing with this for hours now and I just cannot get this page, no matter where I go or what I do, I just cannot find it. Obviously I want and need to tighten up my security (and of course my skills), but when I go thro the pages they just do not come up as shown. Now I have the latest iPad as I am told with the latest updates so maybe I will not get that page, maybe it has all been changed,trouble is I cannot see anything like. Beeps