OK, very senior moment, I have, i pad 2, i phone 4s and Windows 7 computer with latest i tunes.
I want to regularly sync all these together, but in which order, if I have deleted an app on 1, but it is still 'live' on another which gadget will win? if you see what I mean! I want to sync my 'syncy notes' app. but which will win the one synced first, - ok getting confused now, but hopefully you can see what I mean, at the moment it just seems a never ending cycle of syncing