How do I delete an app for good, clear out of my library so it never gets put on my Ipad or Iphone ever again? Thanks!!

Delete the app from your device and from iTunes and that should do it.

Check out the tutorial How to uninstall or delete an app from an iPad or iPhone

Plenty of other sites searching the web or this forum - basically you need to go into the iTunes library under Apps and remove them there. Good luck -

Aye, delete from iPad, and iTunes and even delete the ipa from the media library directory on your hard drive