So, how do I move my contact info, mostly phone numbers from my Iphone to my Ipad??

Well, It may not matter now. I synced my Iphone to ITunes and now all my contacts and phone numbers are gone.

Is all lost????

Unless you had them somewhere other than your phone, yes, they are gone.

If you've every synced your phone with iTunes on another computer, your info may still be there, depending on what the settings were.