So. Here is what I ordered and what went back.
Smart cover. Keeping it.
Back protector; sent it back. Not a perfect fit and two Ive tried cover the mic. A skin will be temporary.
Sleeve - love it. It's a Grantwood Tech sleeve. Just a tad extra space. Very nice.
Box wave stylus. Keeping it - however it's very small. My hand cramps. I'm looking for a longer one that is as responsive as this one. My husband has an Acase and it's longer but not nearly as responsive.
Pogo stick stylus. Sent back. Nothing compared to the box wave.
I plan to be first in line when Apple releases a folio smart cover.
If you have any suggestions please feel free.