FaceTime does not alert me when someone tries ti connect UNLESS I am in FaceTime. It is the same when I call my son. He gets no alert. I have to call him on the phone and tell him to get on FaceTime. Then when I contact him he gets the pop up. There must be a way for FaceTime to alert you of a contact even if you are in another app or for that matter, even if your iPad is in sleep mode.
I have an iPad2 with 5.0.1
Thanks for the help